God loves family.
Stop and think about that.
The God who created the heavens and the earth (Isa. 42:5) also designed the family (Gen. 1:26, 27; Deut. 6; Eph. 6:1-4). By design, this shows the great power and tender love that God has for His creation.
This is extremely important to developing and maintaining a healthy family. Why you might ask? Because it lays the foundation for what God intends for each and every family.
Through the years I have had the privilege of meeting and counseling with hundreds and hundreds of families. In these conversations, I have found that many families have lost sight of these two simple truths: (1) who God is, and (2) His expectations for the family.
Often, what I hear is how the other spouse never listens, or the arguments with the dreaded teenager, or how strict and controlling parents are at home. Whatever the case may be, one of the most fundamental principles every family must never forget is that there is a holy God (Ex. 15:11) and it is our duty to obey, honor and serve Him (Deut. 11:13)!
The moment we shift our focus from God and onto ourselves, the less likely we will obey Him and teach our family the truths of His Word (Deut. 6:4-6). The key is to focus on who God is and not on what you want.
Finally, when God is your total focus, it puts into perspective what He expects from you and how to relate it to your family. The first thing the Bible says is to, “love the Lord your God with all of your heart, mind, and soul (Deut. 6:5; Matt. 22:37). Once you do that, it makes it so much easier to “love your neighbor as yourself (Matt. 22:38).
God requires us to love Him and to love others. That’s the foundation of family!
So, how are you doing with your love for God and your love for your family? Is there anything between your spouse or going on with your child that needs to be resolved?
Remember these two simple truths: (1) love God (who is holy, righteous and just), and (2) seek to put your family first above yourself (Heb. 12:14; Rom. 12:18 15:1-5; 1 Cor. 10:24). This is a powerful reminder for you to love the Lord for who He is and for giving you the tremendous opportunity to demonstrate that love to your family.
Take Action
1. What are some improvements needed in your life?
2. How are you demonstrating the love of God to your spouse and children?
3. List some ways you can help your family be more active in supporting one another.
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